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Spinning Is Not Love

When someone cares about you
 They do not enjoy watching you spin…
 They do not keep you guessing on purpose
 They do not play hot and cold with your nervous system

Toxic people use confusion as a leash
You chase their meaning
You chase their approval
You chase their attention

All that spinning keeps you tired and dependent

The right people are not perfect
But you do not leave them feeling like your brain is broken

Spinning is not love
It is control.

Notice how your body feels after you spend time with someone

Do you feel grounded
Or do you feel like you have to replay everything they said

The right people bring peace even when you disagree
The wrong people leave you confused even after they say
It is fine

When you stop calling spinning love
You start to choose differently

 

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Yakira Yedidia is an Unshakable Independence Advocate. She knows true freedom starts with Unshakable Self-Worth—built one action at a time.